Illusion of Change a.k.a False Optimism

Introduction Have you ever done the same thing repeatedly, expecting a different outcome? Have you even ignored a problem too long expecting that it will go away by itself? That’s what I call false optimism or having an illusion of change. I am guilty of these many times in my life as well as in […]
Understanding Your Neurodivergent Child – Strengths & Growth

Parenting a neurodivergent child has its own specific strengths and challenges. Being aware of these are the keys to assisting them to develop and flourish. In this article, we discuss the strengths, challenges, and developmental unfolding of neurodivergent children, with practical advice for parents. We’ll also discuss how to develop resilience, foster emotional regulation, and […]
Done list versus To-Do list

Introduction Most of us are good at creating or having a long to-do list and are familiar with stressing about our to-do lists. For years I was a slave to my to-do list until I learned to accept that there will always be items on it. You can’t wait for everything on your list to […]
Parenting a Unique Child: One Parent’s Journey

Parenting is one of the most rewarding and challenging endeavors in which one can engage. For first-generation immigrants, this journey often involves the additional complexities of juggling cultural expectations, navigating unfamiliar systems, and conforming to new norms. For most, it is the promise of a successful and satisfactory life in the host country that drives […]
It’s never too late! Start Now!

Introduction I really wished I would have gone to the Cinco de Mayo festival at my church and met my friends this Saturday. But I didn’t as I was tired. I felt bad and started feeling, “I should have gone. I could have managed my schedule better. I could have pushed myself a bit more”. […]
Neurodivergent Parenting with Purpose, Faith & Resilience

Parenting is one of the most rewarding yet challenging journeys, filled with moments of joy, doubt, and discovery. When raising a neurodivergent child, this journey can feel even more complex, often accompanied by feelings of uncertainty, isolation, and the pressure to fit into a world designed for neurotypical individuals.